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Naomi Karten has always been fascinated by human behavior. In this blog, she focuses on observations, thoughts, ideas, and the wisdom of others as it concerns people and how they function (or don’t), particularly in organizations.

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Nov 24 2009 - 8:17pm
I have a colleague whom I used to view as a loudmouth. He was intelligent, articulate and full of life, but also highly arrogant and opinionated. And he always shouted, hurtling his voice across the room.One evening, several of us were just heading out for dinner when he appeared. I tried to send him go-away vibes, but he wasn't in receive mode, and when one of the others invited him to join us,...
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Nov 19 2009 - 10:30pm
It may seem like a contradiction, but you can view yourself as a team player and still impede your team's ability to succeed. Consider one team that I observed during a four-hour problem-solving session.
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Nov 16 2009 - 11:37pm
There's a hotel near my office that's a popular site for business meetings and conferences. It's part of a hotel chain that prides itself on its service, and it shows. I've given numerous presentations at this hotel chain, and I've been impressed with the staff's attentiveness and responsiveness.But the last time I visited the hotel for a dinner meeting, something was different. I sensed that the...
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Nov 11 2009 - 3:52pm
It happens repeatedly: People assure customers that they can ask questions at any time, but their actions suggest otherwise. For example:
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Nov 3 2009 - 3:05pm
When a man named Gary started work at a new company, he went to the technical support group and introduced himself. They chatted and had a few laughs. In the process, they came to know him before he needed their help, and they in turn had a chance to explain their services to him.Members of the group said this was the first time anyone had ever approached them like this. Most often, they...
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Oct 20 2009 - 12:05pm
As a frequent flier, I've had that dreaded experience in which I go to Point A and my luggage goes to Point B. Once, my luggage went to a more exotic destination than I did.On one trip, though, I wished that my suitcase had, indeed, gone to Point B. It emerged on the baggage carousel with a ripped zipper and the top bent back so as to reveal its contents. (We are warned to wear clean underwear in...
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Oct 12 2009 - 8:51pm
When is a thank you not a thank you? Consider these situations:The Anonymous Thank YouWhile preparing an important presentation, a woman named Ginny requested and received assistance from six people. The presentation was a success. Afterwards, she emailed a single message of appreciation to the six. The message began: "Thank you for your input ..." No opening names, no greeting, no indication of...
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Oct 1 2009 - 3:54pm
Have you ever had the distinct feeling that the person you were speaking to wasn't really listening? Were you convinced the person was a million miles away, give or take a hundred thousand? Has it ever gotten so bad that if your words went in one ear and out the other, it would be a step in the right direction?Do you suppose other people have ever had that reaction when speaking to you?
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Sep 23 2009 - 8:54pm
Griping and grousing seem to be so prevalent these days. For that reason, I've been gratified to read several articles and blogs recently that commented on the positive impact of kindness and encouraged readers to do their share. I second that.
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Sep 17 2009 - 9:28pm
Have you ever said A to your customers and they thought you meant B? Or, they said C and you thought they meant D? Such situations can lead to flawed outcomes and damaged relationships, especially if you don't discover the conflicting understanding till too late.
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